Wasting time on the wrong guy?

Many of us end up being in a relationship longer than we should have and it pinches the most when we realise it after wasting our invaluable youthful days. Specially, when you have invested months and years in a relationship, you tend to overlook certain signs which may doubt your decision of being with your partner. And even though from deep within you have a hunch that he is not the right guy, you just can’t let go. All these signs indicate it’s time for you to act.

1. He is not paying any heed to your small complaints: These little things snowball into a big issue as time progresses and you may end up feeling insignificant to him. It also shows that the other person is clearly not taking even the smallest efforts to keep you happy.

2. Your compatibility in bed is not healthy: Apart from whether or not your sexual desires are being fulfilled by him, it is very important for both of you to feel comfortable with each other. There are times when you get stuck in an odd moment in bed with your partner. You should be able to talk freely about that or just take it in good humour. When these things go out of the bedroom unsorted, they trigger other issues.

3. He is holding you back from exploring your true potential: It could be his ignorance or ego, but if you feel you are not getting enough support and appreciation from him to get going and accomplish your dreams, then may be what you are feeling is right.

4. You are the only one compromising: It may take a while for you to understand that you have actually altered your life and desires to suit his requirements. When you do, it’s time to stop.

5. You find it hard to talk to him freely and he is not all ears: Either you both are not on the same page about a topic of discussion, or his reaction is keeping you away from easily talking on something, or you are not able to hold a conversation for long with him because he gets bored or is not interested in listening to you. You wouldn’t want to imagine a life where you can’t talk to the person you are living with.

Get out, first and fast...delay is dangerous!